“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” Buddha
Welcome to the middle, everyone. Congrats on making it through the physical triad!
On our Chakra Journey we rode the energy of our internal fire (3rd), to float in the warm air of the chest cavity for today’s journey (4th). Full of gratitude for who we are, and curious for how this self-alignment expands. The 4th Chakra is the home of our spirit. Where the strings of love and compassion originate for everything and everyone which weaves together our life. As the heart pumps our blood, so does it pump our tenderness. Let’s jump right in!
Welcome back to your space, where you have a mat, water, and a journal. Maybe you have changed the scarf over the lamp to Green.
As we give allowance to and space for the principle of change, I will continue to present these Chakra journeys in slightly different ways. Not the same way works for everybody, and sometimes you need to see something in a different perspective to actually want to do it.
The quoted readings and some exercises come from the book Wheels of Life by Anodea Judith, PhD. All other sources are noted. These posts will be written as both blog and journal; I have taken this journey to create it. My aim is simply to share information I have found useful. Any mistakes are my own.
I want to drop us in right away, feeling the power of our own compassion.
As we have grown older, the heart has weathered a lot of events, and a lot of time. Based on the nature of reality, the heart has not gone unscathed, and there is more than one event which has shook you to your core.
Thanks for being here. Okay Ya’ll, you know what we do first! We will sink into our chakra system with the Sushumna Breathing Activation. I decided to display the sequence for one more post because it is still a new activity! Keeping honest with ourselves about when we need assistance is part of the cycle of life. In addition, breathing is the most powerful tool for integrating Chakra Four, and we will use it many times today.
Align the chakras along sushumna. Read through the steps first and then stand to practice
Great, we are connected to our body, vibrating in tune with inner and outer molecules, and have arrived at our core, the Still Point of our being.
Journal Prompt:
Describe your first memory of feeling Love. Describe the sights, sounds, and smells.
“Anahata” Sanskrit for “Unstruck”
Associated Weighty Words: Love, Air, Breath, Balance, Relationship, Affinity, Unity, Healing
The Table below is a non-exhaustive list of physical and mental, we will call them “charms”, which you can work with for each Chakra. “Work with” would be to feel (location on body), visual imagination, do (activate body part), eat, smell, watch, listen, etc. – Well that just means, using all your senses! How very Tantra of us 😉
Anahata | Unstruck (sound that is made without any two things striking) |
Location | Heart, Thoracic T1-T5 on Spine |
Element | Air |
Outer Force | Gaseous |
Function | Love |
Inner State | Compassion, Love |
Glands and Body Parts | Thymus, Lungs, Heart, Pericardium (fibrous membrane around heart), Arms, Hands |
Malfunction | Asthma, High Blood Pressure, Heart Disease, Lung Disease |
Color | Indigo |
Seed Sound | Lam |
Celestial Body | Venus |
Food | Green Fruits and Vegetables |
Verb | I Love |
Herbs | Lavender, Jasmine, Orris Root, Yarrow, Marjoram, Meadowsweet |
Minerals | Emerald, Tourmaline, Jade, Rose Quartz |
Animals | Antelope, Birds, Dove |
Sense | Touch |
Chief Operating Force | Equilibrium |
Demon | Grief |
The Heart Chakra symbol is a Circle surrounded by 12 Lotus Petals, with 2 intersecting triangles in the center. “The triangles represent the descent of spirit into the body and the ascent of matter rising to meet the spirit. This symbol, also known as the Star of David, represents the Sacred Marriage: the balanced interpenetration of Yin and Yang polarities.” Anodea Judith
“Opening the heart chakra requires a combination of technique and understanding. First, we learn to see the world in terms of relationships – what causes things to enter into and remain in combination with others and the world around us. Second is the practice of balance – between body and mind, inner and outer realms, self and other, giving and receiving. Thirdly – transcending the ego, allowing us to surrender to forces larger than the self. Last – understanding and control of the breath, for it is a tool of physical and mental transformation.” Anodea Judith
The level of connection we have with someone or something is scientifically called “affinity”, or what we describe as “chemistry”…two parts stay in contact because there is an intrinsic fit, a bond.
This aspect of affinity is all new for me, how about you? It is starting to make sense…my mind is connecting all of the thoughts I have had on Love. Reconciling all of the ways society has told me what I need and what Love looks like. I’m happy for a new, stripped down perspective. Through affinity, Love can arise: to live in a state of harmony.
These two videos on Maya Angelou’s personal account of Love go together as one. Love liberates…love is air we help distribute through our choices of acceptance and understanding.
Whether we do that within ourselves, or for others…love is liberating.
What can decrease Love?
The tighter we hold on to Love, as if it is a scarcity, the smaller amount of room we have to recieve it. Love needs Air, as all things do. If we can imagine love as abundant, we will give abundantly, which as part of the self-fulfilling wheel…we will receive abundantly.
A highly regarded Vietnamese Zen Bhuddist Monk named Thich Naht Hanh wrote an insightful book interpreting the philosophy of Love in 1926, called How To Love. He has many other lovely books you might be interested in. He tells us that “Understanding” is another name for “Love”. “To Love another means to fully understand its suffering”.
The more we practice and are aware of what chakra alignment means for our development, the more we can hope to fulfill these needs. We cannot expect to attain perfection, but we will gain understanding with ourselves on what we need to suffer less.
A Bhuddist Proverb told in story form by Thich Naht Hanh
“If you pour a handful of salt into a cup of water, the water becomes undrinkable. But if you pour the salt into a river, people can continue to draw the water to cook, wash, and drink. The river is immense, and it has the capacity to receive, embrace, and transform. When our hearts are small, our understanding and compassion are limited, and we suffer. We can’t accept or tolerate others and their shortcomings, and we demand that they change. But when our hearts expand, these same things don’t make us suffer anymore. We have a lot of understanding and compassion and can embrace others. We accept others as they are, and then they have a chance to transform.”
How do I react to Love and affection?
Describe an incident that hurt my heart, and how do I feel about it now?
The element of the Heart Chakra, Air, is how we can embrace complex relationships; mimicking air by inviting equilibrium, calmness, softness, and openness.
The most important exercises of this chakra will have to do with breath. I know, I know, it’s getting kind of old to pay attention to, but it is tragic how important it is to a functional system.
I want to speak on a grave matter while we are here. There are unbearable atrocities that happen to men and women every day. Relationships (past or present in their lives, not yours) gone awry. Perpetrators will either deny wrongdoing, or claim it as “love”. Rape, pedophilia, abuse, harassment, murder. If you have experienced this, I feel deeply for your pain. In no way do I mean to equalize a “break up” to “xyz”. What I will say, with tenderness, is the weight may be different, but the healing is the same. The only way through is through. Breathe, Grief, Breathe, Acknowledgement, Breathe, Personal Freedom, Breathe, Forgiveness, Breathe, and so on. Please do not carry their savage weight. You are Love, Love is Air.
You saw this coming…let’s do some breath work 🙂
Alternate Nostril Breathing: This is my go-to sequence when I experience my mind wandering when I am taking time for mind/body work. It can harmonize the left and right sides of the brain through the individual attention of flooding with oxygen. If you would like to do this now, go for it, but the Bandhas breathing technique is where I want to focus today.
Bandhas Breath: “Bandhas” means “Lock” – method of holding breath and locking it into certain parts of the body. There is a whole world of yoga devoted to this practice and is considered advanced. I’m including it because it stimulates relaxation after inducing tension which is pleasant, and it brings more awareness to where we can send our breath. Practice these just once right now, and remember to fill yourself up with air as completely as you’ve ever tried before. Let it rise into your throat and extend through your extremities.
“When the upward- and downward-moving forces are thus blocked and forced into proximity with each other, then it is said that they function like two sticks being rubbed together: they produce heat. The concentration of energy increases with practice, and it is said that a striking phenomenon eventually takes place: in very advanced practitioners the intense heat created by the locks, coupled with retention of the breath, awakens awareness and leads it upward along the central path of the spine.” -Yoga International
Precautions to engaging this breath:
Bandhas’s as written by Anodea Judith:
Awesome work activating deep breathing. We always have breath in our back pocket when we run into issues. By its nature, breath is a healer, and it is how we can always start a healing path.
Journal Prompts:
Describe how I openly express love and affection (non-sexual).
What are 5 things I love about myself? Add as many as you can over time.
After doing breath-work and emotional digging, it is fitting to do some Self-Massage. 1, touching yourself is an act of love. 2, massage will continue releasing more trapped energy. Our rib cage is full crevasses that rarely get individual attention. Massaging where the sternum and ribs meets is a key area to open the heart. This work can elevate your breath capacity. Play around and explore your skin. Linger longer over places that feel dense or not pliable. Below is a very very brief video (I’m moving way faster than you should) for some chest/rib cage/shoulder ideas. Again, it is just the tip of the iceberg! The Heart Chakra also includes the arms so include them as well. Spend 10 minutes with yourself.
In these Quarantine times, I feel extra grateful to the artists who post their music and even go live. Many artists have even put together concert series with folks spanning the globes. This one popped up on my feed and I was so curious because Jack Johnson is an absolute treasure, who I hadn’t listened to in a few years. Spoiler, he is still soothing all the anxiety in ya through that natural voice…and he has friends! This woman…wow 🙂 Last thing, the second song transitions us perfectly into tomorrow’s Chakra about Voice, so look forward to that! Enjoy these physically distanced tunes!
Beautiful souls, I have TWO more videos for you today, and then you go DO YOU. I hope you have felt Love in yourself, and you can send Love to others.
Conclusions of the Heart Chakra: Love can be delivered in every breath we take. How we respond to ourselves, people, and events, can be done with understanding of suffering, and initiate harmony.
Kaitlin
4/20/2020
Bonus film if you need a movie to watch: The Upside. From book to big screen, Kevin Hart and Bryan Cranston did a fantastic job of portraying the evolving humility, compassion, connection of the characters. Showing on Amazon Prime